DEAR, PyNKbERRi: Bachelor of the month

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Bachelor of the Month!!

Our Bachelor of the Month is Yusuf! An active member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Incorporated and all around great guy!

Name: Yusuf Neville

Location: Greensboro, NC

Occupation: Market Development Manager

Long Term Dream: Be my own brand. Have several real estate endeavors. Be an executive for corporate marketing with my current company.

What's Your Type: I don't really have one. There's beauty everywhere. I just know what I like when I come across it.

Favorite Color: Purple

<---- some eye candy :-x (what! a little skin won't hurt lol)

Twitter scream!!!!

Name: @Divinepride

Location: NYC

Issue/Question: "why is it that when you're with a guy for a long time all of a sudden he just wants to be friends? what makes guys switch for more than friends to buddies?'

Answered by: PrettyBeau

The phrase its NOT you its me is bound to come up with this convo! And maybe that's simply all it is or maybe not. What's important is that you understand what he's trying to tell you. In a nut shell "he's just not into you anymore." Sounds harsh? well it is but know your WORTH!! If a guy is switching lanes on you don't chase after him in a horse powered engine miss, back up and give him space. You'll find another guy that wants to be more then just buddies in no time...remember its no rush just take your time.

...prettyBeaU

Street scream!!!!

Name: Innocent HomeRecker

Location: BX

Issue/Question: There's a boy I've known all my life and we are really good friends. But lately I have been feeling different about us. I find myself looking at him as more then a friend and I think I may be in love. The problem is that he has a girlfriend :-/.. I really don't think she's right for him anyway. When I'm around him lately Ive been showing him that I feel different about us, and I almost kissed him once. Should I continue my pushy ways? Or leave him to his girlfriend?

Answered by:
Pretty Beau

This seems like an easy answer but in reality its nOT. Everyone is going to tell you to Stop being a home wrecker and leave that boy alone. But I think its more complex then that. If you knew this boy all your life then you should have a clue into what his true feelings are. I say be direct and ask him (if its that important to you) if he's your true friend he'll tell you the truth. NOW!, if you're not ready for a response like "girl your crazy we are just friends" then keep your self silent, that just might be the end of a great friendship... even though things will never truly be the same since you know your true feeling for him, even if he's in the dark about them.

Pretty Beau.

Train scream!!!!

Name: Confidence Killer

Location: BK -alll day

Issue/Question: I have a friend that is REALLy full of her self and is always talking about all the things she has and how she looks. Is there anyway I can humble her a little? I really love her as a friend but she has people thinking that I'm self-centered as well ( GUILTY BY ASSOCIATION)!.

Answered by:Pretty Beau

Confidence is great but cockiness is NOT! Since you still want to be around this chick you need to tell her how you feel (and everyone else around her for that matter smh). You should tell her sincerely from your heart what's up. Your girl should understand and be willing to look into it. You never really should want to change someone but sometimes its OK to help people improve for the better.

Pretty Beau...

PrettyBeau's Original Quotes

"Happiness is a state of mind make your own if there is no one there to share the happiness with you be happy alone, it's great being happy with someone dear but if that person disappears don't be too greedy to share that happiness with the person that is always there YOU!"

"A man is never going to respect a women who doesn't respect herself. If you don't stand for something you'll fall for everything!"

"Time is dear so use it wisely if you know that time is being misused or wasted don't continue on that path because you cannot get it back."

"When the time comes where you feel like you're all cried out and your empty with nuthing left RELAX the worst is over yet instead of focusing on the hard times that pasted consider all the wonderful things that are about to come your way."

"Don't ever be Scared of losing someone if that's what's meant to happen it will happen regardless, god always has a plan and it's greater than yours stay still and let his plan begin."

Marketing Degree Graduate & Make-up Artist

What's your long term goal?
:To be beautiful n dirty richhh ;;). :*
Realistically-7 sources of income by 25, live off residuals n doing what I love surrounded by who I love(including my pYnKz of course)

What's worst your burps or your farts?

:I have a 400lbs man living inside me with bbq sauce stains on his tank top who loudly burps multiple times a day.

Who's your girl crush?
:Janelle Monae- underrated talent plus her bouffant gives me a woody

Craps for 7 days straight or child birth?

:If I crapped for 7 days straight my 110lbs ass would be dead! So I guess a wittle baby waybe

Hot pYnK or LIme Green?

:Hot pYnK on my lips, Lime Green in my wallet :*